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i got invited along with my parent and my bf, to my ex bf's dad's bday. The problem is my ex is engaged to this other girl, she's not bad, she just has a problem with me. Whenever me and my ex speak to eachother(been friends for 9 yrs and dated 4 3yrs) she gets really insecure and fights with him, which usually ends up 2 b my fault and I agreed 2 no longer make contact with him. They r engaged now(they've only been dating 4 7mnths). The thing is i really want to go coz its a playboy theme and ive always wanted to dress up like that. My current bf is going with. I just dont want to cause any trouble in their relationship, so should i go or not. Also his parents really wants us 2 get back togetha(not interested), I dont want to b akward. Should I go or shouldn't I?

I am afrikaans