Semilove

Dream:

I’ve had a dream, which I cant really understand.

It’s midday. I’m in my room, it is slightly altered. Apart from the things there used to be, there is a cornered couch where my bed used to be. This couch is the same as the couch in my best friends house(male)

There is also a table. In the middle of the room, there is a tv, with another couch before it. This couch makes a 45 degree angle with one of the corners of the room (so it makes a kind of triangle in a corner). I’m sitting on the table at first. Some other people are in the room, some I recognize as my friends. My old math teacher comes sit next to me, and talks about soccer. A while later I’m sitting on the cornered couch, my best friend sitting next to me, as well as my math teacher. Then a dog comes walking towards us, it’s a blend of the 2 dogs my best friend owns, it looks really weird. We talk a little, nothing special (I cant remember).

Then, a while later, I’m sitting on the couch in front of the tv, and a girl is sitting next to me. I could not relate her with someone I know, but apparently she was a friend of me. She was blonde, about 4 inches shorter than me. She was wearing a summer dress, yellow with flowers. She shows me a text message she got from a friend (female) of mine (and apparently hers) It reads something like: you know what you have to do to get him?

And then another text message she got from her: tongue in mou, tongue in mou, tongue in mou.

Not mouth, as I’d think it should be, but really: mou.

The weird thing is, that the messages were in English, which is not my native language.

We were standing now, and we kissed once. And then again. And she smiled.

After that we were sitting on the couch, apparently we were in a relationship now, because she said: I wouldn’t mind having sex right away, but I understand if you want to wait.

(By the way, I don’t know about you, but I never know I’m dreaming when I dream, so I thought it was real)

So, I hesitated, because I did find it a bit quick to have sex. After this it becomes a bit blurry, but the next moment we were outside my house. It didn’t look anything like it does in reallife. (don’t ask me how I know we were outside my house…) There was a hotel. I entered, and walked to the reception. She wasn’t there with me. I did hold her coat, and my own coat. Her coat was the same as a reallife friend of mine (it was green, but she doesn’t look anything like the girl in the dream). I saw there was a whole bunch of condoms on the counter. I ordered a room for 2, and got a key which said ‘26-60’ and a condom.

After that I looked for my room, I walked up a stairs but saw that was ‘29’. I walked back down, and walked up another stair (a smaller one) to ‘26’. This floor looked like my old school. Room 60 looked like a classroom, nothing like a hotel, and inside were just tables and chairs. In the hallway were just men, looking for their rooms.

So I went back outside, and saw her taking a bus. I suddenly realized I was dreaming, which most of the time means I would wake up. It did get a bit blurry, but I stayed dreaming, and shouted to her, come with me. She stood in the door, but then I woke up.

Now, the things that I find weird:

I’m usually attracted to brunettes instead of blondes. She was really pretty though.

Further, in the hotel, I didn’t think about having sex, so i myself don’t think that’s the reason for the hotelroom. Of course, the collection of condoms and me receiving one could point to that.

Now, some things that could help, in chronological order:

My old math teacher liked soccer, and the WC is of course live, my country played this thursday.

My brother has a math test he has to pass, to pass this year.

I haven’t seen my best friend in a long time

I saw the romantic comedy ‘simply irresistible’ yesterday, which features a blonde actress

I’m a virgin

I watched an episode of ‘cold case’ featuring a gang called 29th street

Further, I’m a student, studying physics, having a lot of tests this week, and I don’t have a girlfriend.

I just wanted to share this with you, maybe you can tell me what you think of this.

I always heard that dreams about sex (while that didn’t happen) have nothing to do with sex.

Hi all,

Here is my problem. I have a close group of about 10 friends, who essentially always do stuff together. Just hang out, go on holiday with each other etc.

Over the last year I noticed that I've become more attracted to one of my friends.

She is definitely on the same page, but, of course, that counts for all my friends.

So she obviously likes me, we share the same interests, we do things together etc.

However, i'm not sure she likes me more than just friends.

And here we arrive at the old love paradox. If i tell her how i feel, and she loves me as well, all is good. However, if she doesn't, then i could ruin a great friendship. Furthermore, it could take apart the group and all the fun.

Now, i've done a great deal of thinking about this of course, because i have to be certain i would want a lasting relationship with her before i tell anything. After this is realized that a relationship would work, but ,of course, so far only seen from my part.

I could ask one of her friends what she thinks about me, but that will basically have the same effect as telling her directly. That's why i'm asking this question online.

Also, this is all under the assumption i could tell her how i feel, because i'm not very good at that.

I would love some thoughts of you about this, so i can better decide what to do.

Should i tell her or am i so kidding myself and remain good friends?

Jack.

Hi all,

Here is my problem. I have a close group of about 10 friends, who essentially always do stuff together. Just hang out, go on holiday with each other etc.

Over the last year I noticed that I've become more attracted to one of my friends.

She is definitely on the same page, but, of course, that counts for all my friends.

So she obviously likes me, we share the same interests, we do things together etc.

However, i'm not sure she likes me more than just friends.

And here we arrive at the old love paradox. If i tell her how i feel, and she loves me as well, all is good. However, if she doesn't, then i could ruin a great friendship. Furthermore, it could take apart the group and all the fun.

Now, i've done a great deal of thinking about this of course, because i have to be certain i would want a lasting relationship with her before i tell anything. After this is realized that a relationship would work, but ,of course, so far only seen from my part.

I could ask one of her friends what she thinks about me, but that will basically have the same effect as telling her directly. That's why i'm asking this question online.

Also, this is all under the assumption i could tell her how i feel, because i'm not very good at that.

I would love some thoughts of you about this, so i can better decide what to do.

Should i tell her or am i so kidding myself and remain good friends?

Jack.

Hi all,

Here is my problem. I have a close group of about 10 friends, who essentially always do stuff together. Just hang out, go on holiday with each other etc.

Over the last year I noticed that I've become more attracted to one of my friends.

She is definitely on the same page, but, of course, that counts for all my friends.

So she obviously likes me, we share the same interests, we do things together etc.

However, i'm not sure she likes me more than just friends.

And here we arrive at the old love paradox. If i tell her how i feel, and she loves me as well, all is good. However, if she doesn't, then i could ruin a great friendship. Furthermore, it could take apart the group and all the fun.

Now, i've done a great deal of thinking about this of course, because i have to be certain i would want a lasting relationship with her before i tell anything. After this is realized that a relationship would work, but ,of course, so far only seen from my part.

I could ask one of her friends what she thinks about me, but that will basically have the same effect as telling her directly. That's why i'm asking this question online.

Also, this is all under the assumption i could tell her how i feel, because i'm not very good at that.

I would love some thoughts of you about this, so i can better decide what to do.

Should i tell her or am i so kidding myself and remain good friends?

Jack.

Hi all,

Here is my problem. I have a close group of about 10 friends, who essentially always do stuff together. Just hang out, go on holiday with each other etc.

Over the last year I noticed that I've become more attracted to one of my friends.

She is definitely on the same page, but, of course, that counts for all my friends.

So she obviously likes me, we share the same interests, we do things together etc.

However, i'm not sure she likes me more than just friends.

And here we arrive at the old love paradox. If i tell her how i feel, and she loves me as well, all is good. However, if she doesn't, then i could ruin a great friendship. Furthermore, it could take apart the group and all the fun.

Now, i've done a great deal of thinking about this of course, because i have to be certain i would want a lasting relationship with her before i tell anything. After this is realized that a relationship would work, but ,of course, so far only seen from my part.

I could ask one of her friends what she thinks about me, but that will basically have the same effect as telling her directly. That's why i'm asking this question online.

Also, this is all under the assumption i could tell her how i feel, because i'm not very good at that.

I would love some thoughts of you about this, so i can better decide what to do.

Should i tell her or am i so kidding myself and remain good friends?

Jack.

Hi all,

Here is my problem. I have a close group of about 10 friends, who essentially always do stuff together. Just hang out, go on holiday with each other etc.

Over the last year I noticed that I've become more attracted to one of my friends.

She is definitely on the same page, but, of course, that counts for all my friends.

So she obviously likes me, we share the same interests, we do things together etc.

However, i'm not sure she likes me more than just friends.

And here we arrive at the old love paradox. If i tell her how i feel, and she loves me as well, all is good. However, if she doesn't, then i could ruin a great friendship. Furthermore, it could take apart the group and all the fun.

Now, i've done a great deal of thinking about this of course, because i have to be certain i would want a lasting relationship with her before i tell anything. After this is realized that a relationship would work, but ,of course, so far only seen from my part.

I could ask one of her friends what she thinks about me, but that will basically have the same effect as telling her directly. That's why i'm asking this question online.

Also, this is all under the assumption i could tell her how i feel, because i'm not very good at that.

I would love some thoughts of you about this, so i can better decide what to do.

Should i tell her or am i so kidding myself and remain good friends?

Jack.