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What would you do in this situation?
A friend of mine recently broke up with a girl he was dating for over 6 months. A couple weeks ago me and another friend of his were out clubbing and saw his girlfriend grinding up against another guy. We took notice and texted Tom, telling him his girlfriend was out grinding with some dude. He said she couldn't have been there as she told him she was visiting a friend in the hospital. So the next week, a couple friends of ours saw her leaving a club with a guy, she didn't see us even though we passed right by her. So a couple days ago Tom broke up with his girlfriend Jan, because she was cheating on him. She of course denied it. Since then we have been hearing weird and dirty things about what she has done, what she was like in highschool. Apparently she cheated on Tom with over 8 guys, that we know of, were sure its alot more. Tom had recently bought tickets to go to Europe in March for the two of them, he made reservations and spent alot of money preparing for the trip. He was devastated, but thankfully has moved on since. Now Jan keeps texting us all, blaming us for ruining their relationship. She keeps pestering Tom. She has even come on here ranting about different stuff, messaging me and another girl who comes on here. Its like shes stalking us.
What should we do? She threatened to "ruin our lives" She hasn't done anything violent to us, yet. But we know she has a drug problem. It's quite concerning, we don't know who shes connected to or what. Any advice?
Thanks anyone, this is really concerning and quite strange.
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- KateLv 49 ปี ที่ผ่านมาคำตอบที่โปรดปราน
I would just ignore her, if she accuses you guys of doing anything its just because shes unbalanced and wants to think her cheating wasn't the cause of their break up. Don't get caught up in her little game, if she has a drug problem shes probably erratic and unbalanced. Hopefully ignoring her will allow her to move on.
- ไม่ประสงค์ออกนาม9 ปี ที่ผ่านมา
First of all, definitely let your parents know. This way, if anything bad happens to you, your parents should know who did it (Jan). Second, keep a cellphone in your pocket at all times when you go out of the house, even if it's only a couple minutes or seconds. Third, try to get a recording of her threatening you guys, and then give it to the police ( if your really freaked out) or your parents (the casual road). Last of all, make sure your friend Tom knows this too. For all you know, she might be targeting all of you, including Tom.
Conclusion - Take precautions whenever your outside.
แหล่งข้อมูล: Me and my CRAZY ideas - ไม่ประสงค์ออกนาม9 ปี ที่ผ่านมา
Well, you already (and rightfully) told Tom the truth, so what is her threats gonna change? If she gets some bad people on you, tell a teacher, or, if it really gets to that stage (although I don't think it will) to the police.
- 5 ปี ที่ผ่านมา
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