how do i convince this girl to have sex with me?

Question

Alright, Im 22 and there's this gir, we have been kinda friends, i say kinda cos we rarely talk, but she's nice , shes cute, shes way older than me, divorced and has two kids.. lately she's been goin in search of a man that can measure up to what she needs.. includin sexual needs of course.. I had never ever had sexual thoughts about her till 2 days ago when she told me she had sex with this guy but he cudnt perform properly so to speak... she was so dissapointed cos of that.. so now i kinda offered her sex in a subtle way but she is avoidin me.. I do wanna have sex with her cos i know itd be such a sexy experience takin in consideration ive known her for 5 years.. so how do i do it???

Billy F · Accepted Answer

Forget about sexual contact. You will need the absolute highest and best education that you can possibly obtain, in order to provide for your future spouse and family. You should buckle down to your studies and continue your education. After all, from your descriptions above, you do not intend to marry her before sex; and she may not be the 1 that GOD, Almighty has planned for you to marry. Are you ready to have a child or children? Is she ready to have a child or children? Is she the 1 that you want to spend the rest of your life with? Does she want to marry you and spend the rest of her life with you? Is she interested in having your child or children? The absolute best gift, that 1 can present to a new spouse on the wedding night, is their virginity. If already lost, the next best gift is the hidden bodily assets clean, healthy, free of any and all STDs, and free of having had another persons child or children. After all, no 1 really wants to raise another persons child or children, and you should inform her of all of this information, if you truly care about her at all. These are the reasons that GOD's plan for everyone is to save sexual contact for the wedding night and marriage. If you should have sex with her and she becomes pregnant; will you stand up as a man, marry her, and provide for her and your future child; or will you run off and leave her to raise your child all alone? Think about it.  By the way, do you know for sure that the other guy did not get her pregnant already? Did the other guy infect her with any STD, when he had her?

ไม่ประสงค์ออกนาม · Answer

first, you guys need to talk more. i dunno if she's looking for an actual relationship or just something physical but either way you guys need to communicate more. Let her know that you're interested in her, try asking her on dates and stuff. Basically, show her that you're the best man for her. If she doesn't go for it, then maybe you're not :(
good luck with everything!!

Billy, i respect your opinion, but I'm sure the kid is using a rubber or she's in birth control of some kind. All the talk about her having his kids or the other guy's kids is a bit much....if you saved yourself that's great, but not everyone does that. You should enjoy the pleasures that god gave us, sex being one of them.

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Gaia’s Garden · Answer

She changed her behavior. That means she took your hint and doesn't want it. Sex was only one aspect of the guy she wants in her life.

ya dig · Answer

act like u like her then go from her

? · Answer

Try to talk to her more. Touch her when you talk and make her compliments

ไม่ประสงค์ออกนาม · Answer

hah you cannot force her im afraid

vanessa · Answer

just say la.. what's so difficult?

how do i convince this girl to have sex with me?

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