in your own words what's maturity?

maturity is the ability of a person to apply reasonable understanding in all issues, actions and discussions (wisdom).

I think maturity is a relative term, it's an ever changing state of having achieved a certain stage of development in the course of your life.

Think about the harvest. It's a period when you go out in your orchard and you expect your apples to be ripe. Some apples ripen earlier than others, some are sweeter or more attractive than others. Yet, they all finish their growth cycle within a fixed time span.

maturity is personal growth and understanding of past situations and errors

in other words learning from your mistakes and applying what you have learned in your life

suck my balls is called as maturity